The Diva Cup: Getting in Touch With One’s Vagina

Finally using the Diva Cup… and I don’t feel a thing!

 

I am presently using the Diva Cup right now—in my vagina! Pretty amazing, considering I basically don’t feel a thing. A few weeks ago I wrote about planning on buying a menstrual cup. And now I have finally done it! It was a little tricky, but only took me 15 minutes to read the instructions, relax and just do it.

 

There are two ways to try inserting the cup: 

1. Fold it in half and in half again so it’s like a ‘U’ shape.

2. OR push down on the rim so most of the lip is folded in and just a little of the rim is showing. It’s a bit smaller surface area to insert. (What I chose.)
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More Interesting Facts on the Birth Control Pill (Part 3)

I am continuing my research and thoughts on the birth control pill, due to popular response: Our bodies’ natural cycle is sensitive and brilliant — if we would only listen and pay attention we could learn a lot!


I even designed a t-shirt in commemoration of this important journey!

 

So after I wrote my last two articles on the Pill (“What Your Doctor Didn’t Tell You About Birth Control Pills-Part 1″ and “Part 2″) I got a lot of searches to my blog regarding birth control pills. In addition to “casual sex guide” and “why I prefer sex with strangers,” questions about birth control pills was popular as well. I also met up with a girlfriend I haven’t seen in a while to discuss more and share our personal experiences on it. It’s been great! And so here’s Part 3 — more interesting facts from the book: “The Pill: Are you sure it’s for you?” by Jane Bennett & Alexandra Pope.

 

What is Natural?

Although current contraceptive pills are certainly lower in dose than those in the 60s and 70s, they’re still many times higher than our natural hormone levels. Personally, when I quit I asked my doctor to reduce my dosage, as I was scared to go cold turkey (quit immediately). I thought I was already on a low dosage — apparently I was on 30mg — and she put me on a 20mg pill for a month. The 10mg pill was much more expensive so that’s when I just quit.

“Menstrual suppression, we’re also told, is more ‘natural’ than regular cycling and will save us from some disease states like ovarian cancer.” However, why would you want to take a drug to fix an unlikely problem that you don’t have yet which its very ingredients are very likely to cause you other problems…? It’s kinda like taking more drugs to fix a problem that another drug caused. Or taking drugs to “fix” your body when one could simply live in a healthy lifestyle in the first place.

 

Our Bodies are Already Brilliant

“The Pill masks signs of reproductive health or imbalance. This creates more of a challenge for the practitioner to really be able to detect and treat any underlying balance in women on the Pill.”
- Dr. Claudia Welch

In other words, when we are having painful symptoms from our period, heavy bleeding, or even acne, this is our bodies way of telling us – Help! There’s something off here! When we take drugs to mask that, it may look like the problem is solved or gone away, but really we have essentially told our body to shut up and so the potential of a more serious symptom coming to the surface later on is more likely.

 

It’s Not a Coincidence

If I had a dollar for every time someone told me that they experienced a new symptom while on the pill and then when they got off it the symptom went away, but they’re not sure it’s really related… Of course it’s related! I think many of us have not been brought up to really listen to our bodies and we think we can take a drug (like Advil or Tylenol) to solve a multitude of problems (headaches, stomachaches, swelling) without questioning what is the drug doing exactly? How is it able to ‘solve’ all these aches and pains from different reasons and origins all at once? Another Magic Pill? (Again it’s not truly solving the problem, but simply covering up the symptom— pain. Although you may not be feeling pain anymore, it does not necessarily mean that you have solved the underlying problem.)

 

Our Boyfriends Get to Be Supportive

Wonderful as some of our boyfriends are, they may still not be jumping for joy when we first tell them – Hey honey, I just found out the pill sucks! I’m getting off it! Whaddya think?? They may not be wonderfully supportive at first but they get to work to that. And meanwhile realize  their sexism is clouding their judgment. There is nothing more important than us taking care of our own bodies. How their penis might feel or the possibility of losing any “spontaneity” (another excuse to not be thoughtful) is NOT top priority.

 

Natural Contraceptive Methods: Learning About Our Bodies

Studies show that about 6 out of 10 women quit the pill within six months after trying it. As compared to women who learn about fertility awareness — gaining a true understanding of our cycle and learning when we’re fertile and when we’re not — who continue to use it for the rest of their fertile lives. How cool is that? I am just beginning to learn more about this myself and will continue to share along my  journey. There are temperature methods, where you test your temperature daily—orally. (Originally I thought it was in our vaginas!) Also, one I’ve been trying here and there, is to simply pay attention to your discharge and see how it changes throughout your cycle. Counting #1 as the day you start your period until day 30 (presumably) when you start again, paying attention to the texture, color, etc. So fascinating! Observing patterns I never noticed before.

What Your Doctor Didn’t Tell You About Birth Control Pills (Part 2)

This article explores the specific risks that women of all ages face in using birth control pills, including helpful information like: how it interrupts our natural hormone cycle and what is in the Pill, anyways?

 

In Part 1 of “What Your Doctor Didn’t Tell You About Birth Control Pills” I covered, in general, the long-term risks of taking the Pill and how it is empowering and crucial that we are passing the information on at this time (and all times) even when access to the pill is at risk, and not letting conservatives control our agenda. They will always be trying to control women’s bodies. We need to continue our agenda, regardless.

 

What are hormones?

Hormones are all-pervasive, ever-present in all tissues of our bodies and brains and serve to keep our mental and physical balance. We have stress hormones (like adrenaline and cortisol) that kick in during a fight-or-flight response, keep us alert, and pumps more blood to our major muscle groups. We also have sex hormones (estrogen and progesterone) that nourish us and are responsible for things like re-creation of the uterine lining and production of breast milk. Meanwhile DHEA helps to keep cortisol in check when we are stressed, and progesterone keeps estrogen in check. When we are not “feeling ourselves”, stressed much of the time, or experiencing abnormal periods or heavy cramps, it’s because there is an imbalance in our hormones. When we are stressed a lot of the time, then there are not enough stress hormones to keep up, and our body will have to take from the sex hormones to keep up with our high level of stress. This is one common example of having an imbalance of hormones, and pushing our bodies too hard while not understanding that we need to slow down and nourish our bodies.

 

What are synthetic hormones?

Synthetic hormones are animal-derived estrogen and progesterone (progestin). One common form of synthetic hormones is hormone replacement therapy (HRT). I mentioned in the last post that post-menopausal women who are taking synthetic hormone replacement therapy (HRT) for menopause increase their chances for breast cancer, heart attack, strokes, and dementia. So why is it OK for young women to be taking HRT which is the same synthetic hormones in birth control pills?

 

What do synthetic hormones or birth control pills do?

The most common birth control pill contains both synthetic estrogen and progesterone (progestin). Some have varying levels of each throughout the monthly pack. The synthetic hormones serve to essentially trick your body into thinking it’s pregnant. Thus, preventing your ovaries from producing eggs and your uterus from developing an egg-receptive lining—a combined sterilizing and abortive effect. Also, it makes your cervical mucus much thicker and thus more difficult for sperm to swim through—a contraceptive effect.

When they suppress ovulation, they also suppress the production and behavior of natural hormones, as well as its natural rhythms.

Some birth control pills only contain progestin. It doesn’t inhibit ovulation, instead thickening the cervical mucus as well as preventing preparation of a uterine egg-friendly lining. However, it has not been approved in all countries, as compared to the Pill containing both estrogen and progestin.

Most oral contraceptives are taken for 21 days, followed by 7 days of placebo pills, which allows for a “withdrawal bleed.” This is not the same as a natural period. It is only a result of stopping the drug. (The original promoter of birth control pills, John Rock, gave women placebo pills so that they would have enough “breakthrough bleeding” that the pattern would resemble a natural cycle, hoping that it would draw less opposition from the Church.)

NOTE: Menstrual blood is actually rich in immune cells and is the only blood in the body that does not clot. When we have menstrual bleeding, it is cleansing the uterus, cervix, and vagina with its antibacterial, antiviral properties.

 

What are the risks of taking synthetic hormones long-term?

Usually the lower the dosage of synthetic hormones, the fewer the side effects. But even if there are currently no visible side effects, synthetic hormones can be taking a silent toll that may show up years later.

Breast Cancer
If a woman uses the Pill before age twenty, her risk of breast cancer may double. There are many studies showing the correlation between breast cancer and taking synthetic hormones. I usually don’t advocate the use of fear in education, but it’s also important that we open our eyes to the real dangers we are putting our body in. I’d rather learn this early on than when it’s too late. Even now after quitting the Pill after 12(?) years I don’t know what its silent effects are, but I can take action now and do my best from now on.

Diminished Bone Density
Young women who exercise regularly increase their bone density by 1-2%. Young women who are on the Pill and exercising regularly still do not increase their bone density.

Increased Plaque in Blood Vessels
Young women who took the Pill had a 20-30% increase in plaque in their arteries by middle age.

 

Fertility Awareness Method and Natural Family Planning

These two methods Fertility Awareness Method (FAM) and Natural Family Planning (NFP) have gotten bad raps and have been often confused inaccurately with the “rhythm method”. However, if learned thoroughly and practiced diligently, they are effective forms of birth control. And once you learn the signs of your own fertility, you can use to either prevent or try for conception.

I feel loathe to say this—but it turns out there are even chemicals in lubricants on condoms or creams that can not only be irritating, but also damaging to our delicate vaginal tissues. (Ever had any condoms or lubes that made you itch?) In doing so, it can make it easier for viruses or bacteria to enter. Suffice it to say, that I am looking forward to learning more about my fertility cycle so I know not only what is going on “down there”, but also so I am more empowered when I have sex if I absolutely need to use a condom or not (and not just blindly using a condom every time because I’m terrified to become pregnant and have no idea where I’m at in my cycle). It seems such a revolutionary concept—to have full knowledge and power and information of my body—though it really should be automatic and required learning for all women.

 

I embrace my body! I embrace my health!

 

Here is an interesting form from the book, The Pill: Are you sure it’s for you? that I thought may be helpful. I made it into a pdf for ease of use. Click to download!

My Contraception Plan

 

Sources:

The Pill: Are you sure it’s for you? by Jane Bennett & Alexandra Pope

Balance Your Hormones, Balance Your Life: Achieving Optimal Health and Wellness through Ayurveda, Chinese Medicine, and Western Science by Dr. Claudia Welch

What Your Doctor Didn’t Tell You About Birth Control Pills (Part 1)

This is the first part in a two part essay that explores the restriction of information around the serious risks of taking birth control pills. Part I gives background and explains why fighting for access for the pill and access to information on the risks of the pill are both crucial, and are NOT in conflict with one another. Part 2 explains the different chemicals and effects of the pill and what they do to your body. Part 3 has more awesome, fascinating facts. 

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